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When Should You Bounce on a Pending Home Purchase?

By Lydia Hallay, June 26, 2024

Buying a home is one of the most significant decisions you’ll ever make, and the stakes are high. In today’s market, competition for desirable homes can be intense- and once your offer is accepted, it’s easy to become emotionally attached to the idea of a new life in your new home. However, sometimes, despite the excitement and effort put into a winning offer, walking away from a pending purchase is the best decision. Here are key scenarios where it might make sense to reconsider your decision.

1. Unresolvable Issues in the Home Inspection

A thorough home inspection is a critical step in the home buying process. If your inspection uncovers significant issues such as structural damage, outdated electrical systems, plumbing problems, or mold infestation, these can lead to substantial repair costs and potential safety concerns. While most issues can be resolved (either through seller repairs or concessions from the seller that make repairs possible after closing), major problems may not be worth the risk or expense. Key questions to consider are, “is the seller willing to negotiate?” and “are these issues ones I can address over time?” Your realtor will be your best guide on sussing out what’s possible- and, making sure that you are able to protect your earnest money if you decide to walk.

2. Appraisal Comes in Lower Than the Purchase Price

In Portland’s competitive market, bidding wars can drive prices up. However, if the home appraises for less than the agreed-upon purchase price, your lender may not approve the full loan amount. This means you’ll need to come up with the difference out-of-pocket, which may not be feasible. If the seller is unwilling to lower the price- or, you’re unable to bring extra cash to the table to bridge the gap- it might be wise to walk away. If you suspect a home you’re writing an offer on won’t appraise at value, work with your realtor on crafting an offer that offers protection against appraisal gaps. While most homes out there appraise “at value,” a low appraisal doesn’t always mean you need to walk. Your realtor can often gather additional information to help you appeal an appraisal and hold things together.

3. Title Issues

A clear title is essential for a smooth home purchase. If the title search reveals unresolved liens, disputes, or legal issues, these could become your responsibility after the purchase. Title insurance can provide some protection, but unresolved title issues can be a deal-breaker. Your realtor can help you determine whether a title issue is resolvable, or whether it makes more sense to bounce.

4. Financing Falls Through

Even with pre-approval, changes in your financial situation or the lender’s policies can cause your mortgage to fall through. Losing your job, acquiring new debt, or significant changes in interest rates can impact your loan approval. Without secure financing, proceeding with the purchase isn’t possible without an alternative plan. Be sure to keep your realtor (and your lender) abreast of any potential changes- that way, there’s time to try and pivot.

5. Neighborhood Concerns

After making an offer, you might discover issues with the neighborhood that weren’t apparent initially. This could include plans for undesirable developments or zoning changes that change livability or future property values. If the community doesn’t meet your expectations for safety, amenities, or future growth, reconsidering the purchase is prudent. Working with a realtor who is well-versed in the neighborhoods you’re shopping in is a great way to avoid problems from the start.

6. HOA Restrictions

If the home is part of a Homeowners Association (HOA), it’s crucial to review their rules and regulations. Excessive restrictions, high fees, or poorly managed HOAs can lead to ongoing frustrations and financial burdens. If the HOA terms don’t align with your lifestyle or budget, it’s a valid reason to walk away. Your realtor may suggest that you consult with an attorney as you are reviewing HOA documents.

7. Seller’s Non-Disclosure

If you discover that the seller has intentionally withheld important information about the property, such as past damage, renovations without permits, or neighborhood disputes, this breach of trust is a significant red flag. Full disclosure is essential for making an informed decision, and lack of it can justify backing out of the deal. It’s important to note that most sellers don’t know *everything* about the property they’re selling- so consult with your realtor if you have concerns about what’s been disclosed. Sometimes, it’s just an ordinary oversight on the part of a seller- and can be remedied with simple clarification paperwork. Other times, it’s more serious. Your realtor can help you sort the difference.

8. Personal Circumstances Change

Life is unpredictable. Job relocations, changes in family dynamics, or health issues can arise, making the purchase impractical. Personal well-being and stability should always come first, and sometimes that means delaying a home purchase. If you’re thinking of making a home purchase- let your realtor know of any potential life events that are on your radar. They can help you make informed decisions about how best to pivot, if pivoting is needed.

The Takeaway

Walking away from a pending home purchase isn’t a decision to be taken lightly. Sometimes, there are big financial consequences to bailing- including losing your earnest money or legal action from the seller for breach of contract. But sometimes- walking is the best course of action to protect your financial and personal well-being. Your realtor can help you evaluate options and guide you though the proper way to exit a transaction.

Buying a home is a big deal. Your realtor can help you conduct thorough due diligence, seek additional professional advice, and make decisions that protect your interests. The right home, free of significant issues and in a suitable neighborhood, will eventually come along. Remember, it’s better to wait for the right opportunity than to regret a rushed decision.

Have questions about the home buying process? Thinking of making a move? Reach out! I’d love to help you find your next Living Room.

Lydia Hallay

Broker | OR

She/They

Buying or selling a home is often one of the biggest (and most stressful) decisions you'll ever make. I'm here to make your experience as seamless (and fun) as possible. Looking to buy? Whether you're a design-minded dreamer looking for that mid-century unicorn, an investor on the hunt for a fixer (or a 5-plex) to tear into, or a first-time buyer in need of a gentle guide - I'm a skilled negotiator with an eye for design and a knack for finding homes with "good bones." I'm on a mission to ensure you feel empowered and cared for throughout the home-buying process. Ready to sell? If you want to maximize your sales price, you've come to the right place! With a background in landscape/interior design and construction/project management, I've got the tools it takes to make your house shine. When it comes to catching buyer attention, I go beyond the traditional (ex. open houses, RMLS, etc.)- incorporating cutting-edge tools and outside-the-box strategy to build the hype. When it's time to negotiate, my years of experience bargaining contracts mean I'm calm under pressure and know what it takes to get to YES. Like many folks working in real estate, I've got a grab-bag of past lives that inform how I show up. Most of my 20's and 30's (17 years), I worked as a union organizer/negotiator on the state and national level- helping workers across sectors and industries join together and become leaders in the fight for better wages & benefits, a voice on the job, and political power. I've been an entrepreneur, a landscape designer, freelance florist, and have a deep well of personal experience with home renovation & property management under my belt. Aside from working with buyers & sellers, I volunteer my time as the Integrity Chair on Living Room Realty's Broker Advisory Group.  In that role, I serve as Living Room's broker representative for our B-Corp status. A portion of every one of my paychecks goes to Taking Ownership PDX, a community collective of contractors, realtors, neighbors, and businesses who support Black homeowners to age in place, generate wealth, and deflect the gentrification process by deterring predatory investors and realtors.  
About Me: I was born in Memphis, raised in the Sonoran desert (Phoenix), and have been in the PNW since 2003. I identify as queer, and use she/they pronouns. I'm married with sweeties (i.e., I practice ethical non-monogamy) and nest with my spouse, dog, and two cats in the Lents neighborhood of outer SE Portland. I'm a people person, music nerd, avid gardener, and seed-sower/organizer. Since coming to Portland in 2004, I've witnessed many iterations of the city. I'm bullish on the future here- and excited about all our region has to offer. Good food, proximity to nature, an incredible local music scene, and an inclusive community are just a handful of the reasons I love this area. As your realtor, I promise to show up as myself. I'll hustle hard on your behalf with patience, a good listening ear, professionalism, and a goofy sense of humor. What you see is what you get, friends. And if we decide to work together, that's the kind of authenticity I hope you feel comfortable showing too. Ready to make magic happen? Feel free to shoot me a text/email, or give me an old fashioned ring. I'm excited to meet you!
Land Acknowledgement & Mission Statement As a Realtor, the land I do business on is unceded Indigenous land. The Portland Metro area rests on the ancestral lands of the Cowlitz, Multnomah, Kathlamet, Clackamas, Tumwater, Tualatin Kalapuya, Wasco, Molalla, Watlala, Bands of the Chinook, and so many other nations who made this area their home. In addition to the federally recognized tribes mentioned, there are numerous “unrecognized” tribes and Indigenous groups whose stories are also important. I recognize these tribes' legacy, lives, and descendants, and acknowledge my role and responsibility as a guest on stolen lands. I am committed to using my voice and influence as a real estate professional (and, as a human being) to actively contribute to a more just and equitable future- one that promotes dignity, respect, and repair for the damaged caused by systemic oppression, white supremacy, homophobia/transphobia, and exploitative capitalism. If you can't get behind all that. We're probably not a good fit. :)    
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